When a man notices a woman in a club, his imagination takes over. In
most cases, it does not matter what she is wearing. For men,
imagination creates anticipation and the hope of participation! This
is the reason topless dancers are fully dressed when they perform
their first stage dance.
When
a woman notices a man, however, rarely are her initial thoughts
sexual in nature. She is more likely to notice him because he looks
like a man who can take care of himself physically, emotionally and
financially. He looks like he can handle most of life's challenges.
When
men notice a woman in a club or bar, two thoughts immediately cross
their minds:
1- What she would look like naked;
2- What she would be like in bed.
When women notice a man, three thoughts usually cross their
minds:
1- Does he look like he has a job?
2- Does he look like he has a good job?
3- Does he look like he can hold a good job long enough to
benefit them?
Perhaps this explains why men feel they are being subjected to a
10-point physical examination and financial analysis when they ask a
woman to dance.
men look, women see
Contrary to popular belief, women are more visual than men. They are
conditioned to see what they want to see, without staring or being
obvious. Men admire; women inspect. A woman may decide she is
interested in a man before she has caught his eye or gotten his
attention.
Men notice contours and curves. Women notice form and structure.
They also notice men's eyes, hands, teeth, smile, and class. Women
who are more interested in a man's qualities notice men who are
honest, outgoing, confident, and have style, intelligence, a sense
of humor, and class. These men are perceived as likable, friendly
and genuinely interested in others. They develop and maintain a wide
range of personal contacts.
